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ON THE PRACTICE OF PRAYER
For the next four Sunday’s we will be giving attention to a discipline of
prayer that goes by the name the “Divine Office,.” It is a practice
of traditional daily prayer that has been found to be one the best resources
for nourishing the spiritual life. As a primary resource we will be
using Arthur Paul Boers book, The Rhythm of God’s grace. I have six copies
available for purchase where if six people will give me $10 I will break
even. More copies will cost you the going rate of about $18 S&H].
Reading from the jacket of the book, “Today’s hectic pace leaves little time
to nourish the spirit and at one time or another all of us feel spiritually
disconnected and alone. But there is a treasure with the Christian
Faith, highly prized by those who have found it, that offers a solution to
this modern-day dilemma: morning and evening prayer. Practical and wise,
drawing upon Scripture and long-time personally experience, Pastor Boers
[presently professor of Spirituality at Associated Mennonite Biblical Seminaries]
invites us to reclaim this prayer tradition – and to find our Relationship
with God changed forever.
To enable us to practice this way of praying you are invited to our home
for four consecutive Wednesday nights beginning at 7PM when we will keep
Vespers together by praying together the daily office. My sense is
that this practice will take between 30 to 45 minutes. It is not imperative
that you attend all four sessions.
Paul Versluis
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Everything has the potential to draw forth from me a fuller love and life.
Yet my desires are often fixed, caught on illusion of fulfillment.
I ask that God, through my freedom, may orchestrate my desires in a vibrant
loving melody, rich in harmony.
I exist in a web of relationships-links to nature, people, god. I trace
out these links, giving thanks for the life that flows through them.
Some links are twisted or broken. I may feel regret, anger, disappointment.
I pray for the gift of acceptance and forgiveness.
Taken from the May 8 daily prayer to be found at www.jesuit.ie/prayer
gw
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Kathleen’s Simplicity Corner
My mother had a talent for housekeeping. Nothing was ever out of place;
everything had to be clean, and nothing brought her pleasure as much as finishing
her housecleaning. Unfortunately, I didn’t inherit her talent or her passion
for cleaning. My life was so busy from morning till night that
I barely had time to vacuum. My days were filled with job, the kids,
church activities, recreational activities, soccer games, cheerleading practice,
etc. Later, when the kids were grown, night school added to the list. Who
had time to clean? My house wasn’t terrible, but we still scurried
around to pick up if company came over. Dishes have been known to sit
in the sink overnight on occasion.
When I realized my busyness seemed to take my life over I knew I needed to
take control. I longed for a simpler way of life. All the so-called
time saving gadgets only made my life busier. My search for simplicity
began at this point and the path toward simplifying my life was littered
with perils, successes and failures. Some of which I’ll share.
Others are just too embarrassing.
As incredible as it sounds, I discovered the way to simplifying my life did
not include more appliances or gadgets or technology but rather in the opposite
direction. I also remembered that work expands to fill a vacuum so
I took “time” completely out of the equation. I started washing dishes
by hand instead of using the dishwasher, making my own bread from scratch
(no bread machine), and planting a modest garden. I started ironing clothes
that didn't necessarily need to be ironed. As backwards as it sounds,
these tasks took more of my time, slowed me down and actually added time
at the end of the day. As my days seemed to slow down, I took
more pleasure in my house and giving a good cleaning. I never was one
for collecting knick-knacks, but seemed to have
collected a lot of things I didn’t use. I spent a full weekend cleaning
out cupboards and closets of anything that I hadn’t used in a year and gave
it away. I washed the walls, the floors, and the cabinets. I washed
lampshades and ceiling fans. I washed windows, and washed and ironed
curtains. By Sunday night I was exhausted. But the house looked
better, smelled fresher and I had a great time. Rooms seemed to remain
cleaner after that; another mysterious effect of cleaning. The biggest
time-waster to be cut out was television. Eliminating all but about
one hour of shows improved my disposable time and allowed me to fill that
gap with other more important things. I didn't make a decision to cut
down on TV it more or less just happened. I didn't have time for TV anymore.
The change did not come without problems. I spent hundreds of dollars on
cleaning products; one for walls, one for floors, one for ovens, gloves,
masks, paper towels, brooms. Cleaning can get quite expensive.
I also found out that some cleaning products will actually melt plastic (by
mistake of course), or will take paint right off the wall. Another drawback
was my allergies. I have many allergies and dust and cleaning just
seemed to set it off. Formaldehyde is an ingredient in most popular
cleaning products and one I have a definite reaction to.
I bought a couple of books on how to clean. Amazing that not only would
someone write a book about cleaning, but that someone would actually buy
it! Not all recommendations found in books were helpful. Some
recommended adding lemon or orange juice to cleaning concoctions. That
suggestion caused a swarm of gnats to take up residence adding to the problem,
and they are not easy to evict. Another suggestion was to melt beeswax
and turpentine together for a “healthier” furniture polish. This volatile
mixture sent me right into a major migraine and the stink lasted a long time.
But I now have a system. Those of you who know me, know I have to PLAN
things. I can’t do anything without a PLAN. I have a schedule
for housecleaning that helps me manage my time and makes sure everything
gets done. Some days I stick to this better than others but in the
end it helps. I threw out commercially available cleaning products and replaced
them with non-toxic ones. The mainstay of my supply includes hot water,
baking soda, washing soda, white vinegar, a little ammonia and Amway’s LOC.
They accomplish the same results without the sneezing and headaches and I’m
saving a lot of money. A cleaner house and switching to non-toxic cleaning
products improved my health quite a bit. I get more exercise, breathe easier,
sleep deeper and wake up fresher.
Some recipes I found and stick with are:
Walls, counters, woodwork
5 part Hot water
2 part Ammonia
1 part Dawn dishwashing liquid
Floors
¼ cup Arm and Hammer washing
soda (not baking soda)
1 cup White Vinegar
3 gallons Hot water
Windows
1 part White Vinegar
1 part1 cup Hot waterWhite Vinegar
I still have a long way to go. My house is not perfect and couldn’t
hold a candle to my mother’s, and clutter needs to be controlled. But
there is a difference between clean and clutter and I try to control the
clutter while enjoying the clean. I may never have her passion for
cleaning but not I do enjoy taking the time to do it and I take pleasure
in a job well done
Kathleen Cr
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Introducing Laura, Jeff & Ben
Jeff & I met in 1996 in the Mensa (cafeteria) at the German university
where I was doing my Master’s in translation. Jeff had recently completed
his Master’s in translation at Kent State and was teaching in our little
town of Germersheim. By German standards, Germersheim is a dumpy hole
in the wall, but it was our little paradise. It had a small pedestrian
zone, plenty of cafes, pubs, bakeries, and "our" treasured little movie theater.
With 2,000 students from around the world studying translation in this town
of 20,000, the town was always abuzz with conversations in a multitude of
different languages. For a little outing, we could take the train (imagine
several connections an hour for a town of 20,000!) or bike along the Rhine
to the nearby cities of Mannheim and Karlsruhe, or go hiking in the hills
a 40-min. train trip away on either side of the Rhine valley.
We tend to idealize our experiences in Germany, but we’re very happy in Ann
Arbor, and it's basically half-way between my parents in Waterloo, ON, and
Jeff's family near Richmond, IN. We’ve done a fair bit of moving around,
not only geographically, but also in terms of our “career” pursuits.
My undergrad was in theology / religion in Winnipeg, Waterloo, and the West
Bank, before switching to German & French in Germany, and Jeff did an
undergrad in chemistry and worked in a lab before moving on to translation.
At least one of us (Jeff) is using his educational background in a relatively
meaningful way—Jeff is mostly at home with Ben these days, but is gradually
expanding his freelance translation work, as Ben has started attending daycare
2 afternoons a week. I’ve been working full-time at the Law Library
on campus since we arrived here nearly 4 years ago.
One of our main reasons for coming back to this continent was because thoughts
of starting a family were brewing, and it was time to be closer to our families
again for a change. The adjustment to having a child has been challenging
for us—we chalk it up in part to our late start: after all, it is hard to
go from 35 years of doing your own thing, to having a baby wrenching you
out of your normal patterns of existence, especially if you cherish peace
and quiet. Don’t get me wrong, we’ve certainly treasured Ben’s babyhood,
but yet we're both very excited to see him growing up and gaining some (little
bits of) independence. We’re also so glad to have found you all as
our church family and really appreciate your presence in our lives these
past few years.
Laura Br
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TRANSITIONS:
Congratulations to:
Andrew Sz- done with college and carrying on in New Jersey.
High School Graduates:
Elizabeth Sh- off to BVS. She will let us know just where.
Eli Wk: off to Macalester College in Minneapolis.
Jon Hy: off to Earlham College in Indiana.
Stephen Sz: off to good old University of Michigan.
We will miss you all, wish you well and want to stay in touch.
Married, newly:
Dustin and Dikshya Br , now of Ann Arbor. Best wishes and welcome
to the neighborhood.
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Mennonite Mutual Aid Resources
MMA is a church-related organization helping Anabaptists practice biblical
stewardship. MMA offers expertise in pursuing stewardship solutions
through insurance and financial services as well as charitable-giving programs
and fraternal benefits. There are Welcome Packets available for anyone
who wishes to have them.
MMA has developed Stewardship For Kids packages. These one hour curriculum
pieces work well for a one time Sunday morning class. There are three
topics : exercise, nutrition, and emotions.
Tuition Gift Annuity is available to help college students with expenses
and provides the donor with tax savings.
If you have questions or would like more information re MMA resources, contact
Gertrude .The MMA Web site is: www.mma-online.org
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Time for Service
Adopt A Highway: First highway pick up of the summer was
netted 85 bags of stuff! Our stretch of highway is looking good.
Look for two more dates to participate in this fine, fun activity.
IHN: We are now a support congregation and are paired with Seventh
Day Adventist folks The dates are June 16-22. IHN also has unfilled
weeks June 30-July 13, so there will be opportunity there as well.
I will be sending out more information in early June. The garage sale
we did for IHN netted $420.
Ten Thousand Villages garage sale will be held June 6 & 7.
Contact Merle Tr to donate clothes, books, household items, toys, games,
sports items. Direct money donations can also now be made to Ten Thousand
Villages.